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I love this poster – I would not think twice of getting one if they only offer international shipping! I have been thinking about filling our humble house with frames lately but with the beautiful options I can fill the frames with I get so fickle-minded and just not do it. Maybe before the year ends we can finally see some home improvement!

I love subscribing to parenting blogs, home decorating and renovation blogs and inspiring blogs. There will be an internet marketing blog that would interest me from time to time but as soon as I have understood what they are teaching, I unsubscribe. Very few blogs keep my loyalty all through out.

There is one site that I find inspirational and that is the site of Andrew Matthews. I love his 7 Days to Happiness articles, and it was a good thing a friend shared it on her blog.

I am sharing it to you:
Day 1
Day 2
Day 3
Day 4
Day 5
Day 6
Day 7

Choose to be happy!

My husband and our son were looking at various nba shirts they can wear together during his school’s foundation day when I am reminded on the great article from Simple Mom:

Little Things are Long-Lasting

One of my favorite lines from the movie Up is when Russell tells Mr. Frederickson, “That might sound boring, but I think the boring stuff is the stuff I remember the most.”

I think that’s an incredible reminder that as parents we can dream, plan, and act on all of the things that we want our children to remember about us — or not. We are building a legacy every day, whether or not we are intentional about it.

Home is providing a place for everyone to know it is okay to make a mess. Home is a place where creating and learning and enjoying life is more important than white walls and perfect furniture.

The place you live is just that – a place to live. Home – whether rented or owned, big or small, new or old – is what you do, who you are with, and the memories you make.

I love this excerpt from an Article from the Simple Mom.
Thank you.

I read this very nice article and thought of sharing this with you on the blog. Oftentimes, we mommies feel guilty whenever we put ourselves first, thinking that it is something that will not benefit the family. We are so wrong.

Do you know the best way to take care of your spouse and family?

Take care of yourself FIRST.

Such a simple thing, but how many of us actually do it?

Consider the old adage, “If Mama ain’t happy, ain’t nobody happy.” That’s not far from the truth.

Here are some ideas on how to take care of yourself.

1. SLEEP. Schedule enough time each day to get adequate sleep. If you are still groggy most days when the alarm interrupts your slumber, consider going to bed 15 or 20 minutes earlier. If you tend to have problems sleeping, talk to your doctor or a sleep specialist.
2. STRETCH. When you wake up in the morning, take a few minutes to stretch your muscles to help prepare for the new day. Try some simple bends and stretch like a cat to relieve the kinks in your bones.
3. SOOTHE. Set aside at least 15 minutes every day to do something personal for yourself. Maybe it’s to read a romantic novel, take a relaxing bath or meditate to relieve the stress of the day. You deserve this little luxury, whatever feels right for you.
4. SMILE. It takes fewer muscles to smile than to frown, so take the easy way out. The great thing about giving someone a big smile is that they most likely will give it right back. Then you both feel better, which is a nice win-win situation. Here’s another idea: If you happen to spend a lot of time on the telephone, put a small mirror where you can see it. The person on the other end of the phone will hear the smile in your voice.
5. SAVOR. Take the time to smell the roses. Look for things to be grateful for every day. We are fortunate to have a roof over our heads, food to eat, a safe environment and a sun that rises every day. Even on bad days, we can find something to appreciate.
6. SIMPLIFY. Reconsider all the things you think “have to” be done. For example, Easter is coming soon. How many of your planned activities can be pared down to save time, money and aggravation? Ask your children and family for feedback. Do they really care if the hot-cross buns are homemade or bought? Can the Easter Bunny bring simply colored eggs instead of individual masterpieces?
7. SAY NO. Choose which activities & commitments in your life are worthwhile. Just because someone asks you to do something doesn’t mean you have to. Even better, you don’t have to give a reason why you can’t do it this time. Just say, “Sorry, I won’t be able to [whatever].” I used to have a small plaque on my desk that made a good reminder. It said, “Failure to plan on your part does not constitute an emergency on my part.”
8. SAY YES. Say yes to putting yourself first. You deserve it and so does your family.

http://www.simplemarriage.net/take-care-of-yourself-first.html